Sometimes less time can actually be a lot of fun. Find out how…
Are hectic schedules ruining your sex life? Deadlines to be met and boss sounding you out every quite so often shouldn’t play spoilsport when it concerns your sexual desires. So if you are out of time for a prolonged sexual session, have more fun with a quickie to get the adrenalin flowing again. Follow our users guide to indulge in a quickie.
Rahul and Sonia, colleagues at a call centre swear by the benefits of intimacy in an elevator. Says Rahul, “It’s a lot of a fun when you sneak out to the elevator. Making out there acts as a huge stress buster, especially when you are staying up nights continuously. You can always stop the elevator midway, do your thing and be back in seven minutes sharp. But be ready for the looks that your friends give you once you step back in. ” Reiterates Sonia, “quickies are a lot of fun if you know what you want and how to go about it.”
Explains psychologist Amit Verma, “A five minute sex session is a good idea, so long you limit it at that. It is the best solution in a age when lack of proper sex sessions creates a lot of frustration and stress. Yet, I would still advise that when one indulges in such activities, it is best to be mindful of the people around as it might not have a great effect on children if they happen to catch you in the act. Doing it in an elevator is a good idea so long you don’t hurt yourself in that rush. ”
A great place to get dirty down and under. Especially in empty theatres where you have a lot of space and lack of prying eyes. Reveals Jyoti Sharma, a student, “My boyfriend and I often hangout at movie halls. This saves us from getting caught and the intimacy we both crave for is what we can achieve in the last row seats. It’s quite a kick when I imagine about all the things me and my lover have done at movie halls. With romantic songs in the background, it’s the perfect setting for one to get cosy.”
According to Verma, movie theatres guarantee uninhibited privacy. But, if you get caught in the act, you might find yourself in a very embarrassing situation. “It’s best to just find pleasure in touching each other and not experiment with intimate positions. Also, indulging in the act can be more enjoyable than the actual act itself. So why not explore these areas?” suggests Verma.
Back of a club/restaurant
Being out on a hot date sharing your wildest fantasises with your dream boat is exciting, so if both of you are up for a quickie, head to the darkest corner of a nightclub, or even the bathroom, and get your bang on.
“To have it on at a restaurant lends a great boost to one’s sex life. Often it breaks the monotony and ups the desirability factor. Sometimes, I like to have these sessions with my wife, a quick one while heading back home, behind a club. It makes us feel young and bond with each other, the way we used to as teenagers,” confesses Aakash Malhotra.
“The dark areas behind a club, the staircase or some such place actually is a mighty turn on for your libido. The thing with couples is they should do what they both would enjoy sexually. If making out at the back of a popular night club or eatery facilitates their idea of bonding, then there is no harm. You might have people giving you curious stares, but being naughty at times helps,” points out Verma.
The staircase in your office building could serve as the ideal place for a 1hot romp with your girlfriend. Rhea Kumar, a manager says getting it on in the staircase is a huge turn on. “This particular colleague of mine is a pro at quickies. A bang on at the staircase preferably on a really high floor can make you go crazy for a few minutes. It can make you feel very adventurous and desirable,” she adds.
Psychologist Sheetal Mehta however warns of the risks involved in getting dirty on the staircase. One wrong position and you could go tumbling down. “Stairacases are good fun, but do not go overboard with such places because you could end up hurting yourself beyond measure,” she explains.
So it’s not an original idea, but a quickie in a car, at a location where you won’t be arrested for public indecency, can be a very memorable experience. Cars are not only spacious, but they remain the most wanted fantasy of most couples. Ravi Tanwar, a sales executive, totally swears by it. “My girlfriend and I do it in the car just before I drop her home sometimes. It is a lot of fun doing at deserted place with no one to disturb you. Also because of the limited space, you are almost bumping into each other and that definitely is a turn on that keeps us wanting to go on for more.”
Mehta agrees that cars and four wheelers can make you feel very romantic and good about yourself. “Getting intimate within four wheelers can do wonders to couples who go through a crisis or are in need of closeness with each other,” she advises.
The narrow dark alley behind a restaurant or your workplace does sound like something straight out of a romantic thriller. And you can give it a shot as it’s a good option for those who are wildly adventurous. “I like my man because he is very unconventional when it comes to physical intimacy. He gets utterly passionate in the most unlikely of places and we often end up feeling up each other in ways beyond our wildest imagination. Actually it brings all your dark fantasies to life,” winks choreographer Anjali Menon.
Even as Mehta agrees, she points out,” Dark places are always best for those who want to be physical and do not have ample space outside. Yet ‘is best to use your discretion about such places because you might end up with the wrong kind of people at the wrong time.”
Sometimes sex within the office can make you a more fulfilled person. A 10 minute session with your girlfriend who also happens to be your colleague can make you a better worker with a sexually gratified existence. “I like to make out in the office for 5-7 minutes. It refreshes me and helps me concentrate better at achieving deadlines,” reveals Shashi Gupa who works with a MNC.
“Office make outs are very common in an age when people spend most of their time in office. Most indulge in it as a way to deal with work pressure,” states Mehta.
You get all hot and heavy while your girl is changing in the dressing room of a clothing store? Well, why not just sneak in to give a kick to the monotony of a regular shopping spree. “I tried it once with my girlfriend when the salesperson was called away for a while. Imagine the fun you can have inside the changing room as there are mirrors everywhere. Seeing yourselves in the mirror can make you knees go jell,y so just think about all that can follow,” says student, Siddharth Roy.
“Dressing rooms are great fun if you can actually figure an entry. But these days, with a lot of strict rules and surveillance cameras inserted everywhere, you may be asking for a lot of trouble if you indulge in these kind of getaways. Infact, unless you are a compleibitionist, it’s best not to get involved in all this,” advises Mehta.